Here’s another good video from Ysabella Brave that explain the reason why the Jerks get all the girls.

First let’s talk about your body language when you’re on a date, as it always speaks first in any meeting. The trick here is that have to give of the impression that you relaxed and confident. If you act relaxed, it will but the person your dating at ease. Don’t act tease (even if you are). Thing like crossing your arms, restraining a smile and darting your eyes all over the room all show that your tease. Your date will pick up on this and even reflect it.

You what to sit relaxed and keep your eyes on the eyes of the person you’re on the date with. Smile as much as possible and just try to be as friendly as possible.

When it comes to the talk, keep in mind that your there to enjoy yourself and have fun. This isn’t a job interview. So, you want to keep the topics enjoyable as possible. Keeps them as interesting and keep them fun.

If you keep waiting and waiting for Mr./Ms. Perfect, you just wasting your time and getting nowhere.

The truth is that the perfect person only exists in the movies. Stop looking for them as there no such thing in the real world.

While you looking for this perfect person all the people you date will never be good enough. You’ll do nothing but frustrate and spend the rest of your life single.

The real trick is finding someone that’s as close to you imagined perfect as possible and be happy with them.

Nobody on this earth (including you) is perfect. Everybody has their own imperfections. You need to be looking for some who’s  imperfections you can live with. We’re not saying you should jump into a relationship with the first person that shows interest in you. When the chemistry isn’t there, there isn’t point in wasting your time and energy on a relationship that isn’t going to work out in the long run.

The biggest mental obstacle most people need to conquer when they start dating, is the need to leap too quickly serious relationship.

Don’t be in too much of a hurry to get into a solid relationship and out of the dating world.

This problem presents itself often with guys and gals that date infrequently or lean towards long tern monogamous relationships. You need to get comfortable playing the singles game and dating as many people as needed, until you find exactly what you’re looking for. Don’t settle for less.

Most singles want to get out of the untamed instability of the dating scene so that you can establish one man or woman in your life. But, you need to make sure it’s the right man or woman. If you don’t, you’ll end up back in the dating scene all over again, when things don’t work out.