Human and especially women like to be accepted for who they are, and not what they look like. Even those people who have great bodily beauty don not want to be judged on that trait alone.

If your only interest in a person for the way they look, you probably won’t get very far with them.

Men: Remember that we all that get older appearance. Wrinkles and  gray are of major worry to women. So, in the long-term, they are looking for someone that will still love them when they are older.

I’m saying you should have to be content with someone you find unattractive. But, you have to take into consideration is that attraction is not just a issue of looks. Most of what makes relations work in the long term is what is in the inside, not the outside. Therefore, take you time to discover what is inside before you get serous with a person for what on the outside.

This is important when you’re trying to seduce a man or woman.  You have to make them feel secure with you. A person needs to know that they can trust you. To make a person potential mate feel that way you must accept everything about them.  This includes the fact that everyone has their own problems and imperfections.

To be successful in a long term relationship, it is important that you find what qualities you want in a person, other than looks. Things like charisma, intellect, sincerity, faithfulness, aspiration, humor are all common characteristics people look for. Think about what will make you want to continue a long-standing relationship with a person.
 
The best way to make a person recognize that you are not shallow is to compliment them without referring to their looks. For examples, you  can compliment them on how humorous they are or what a nice smile they have. This doesn’t mean you should not compliment them on their looks, just discover a pleasant equilibrium.

When a person feels that you will love them just the way are, they will then imagine you will be content with them in the future. You’ll then be able to attract that life long partner.