Four Lethal Mistakes of Dating that Men Make PDF Print E-mail
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Sunday, 12 October 2008 23:50
It always amazes me that guys make the same lethal  dating mistakes time over and over again. It does not matter if they have been dating for many years or if they just started in the dating scene.

Guys, if you really want to make an impression on a woman and future dates there are things that you have to do.


Mistake 1: Talking about Yourself Too Much


Most men try to make an impression on a woman by chatting through the whole date. More than likely the lady your with has heard it all before. So, talk about yourself for a while, and then ask her questions about herself. Remember, when you ask her about herself, listen and show some interest. She will begin to wonder why you’re not ranting on about yourself, like the other men she’s dated. This will make her  want to learn more about you. You now become an interesting man to her and she’ll be attracted to that because women rarely meet one.

Mistake 2: You Do not Know How to Correctly Ask a Question

Remember to ask questions require answers that can carry you through the date. Make a list previous to leaving for the date

Some Examples:

  • How did you get into that occupation?
  • Where did you go for school?
  • Have you seen the new “(pick an actor)” movie?

If a woman tells you about her weekend at the dance center, and you don’t know much about type of dance, just ask her how she like it and how she got into that type of dance. Questions like these will help carry the conversion through the date and make her feel you’re interested in her.

Mistake 3: You’re not Showing Your Admiration

Compliments lets a woman see that you are perceptive and women like attentive men. This is a easy mistake to correct ...  just find something you like about her and point it out.

For example, you can mention her great eyes, her stylish watch, nice dress, her hairdo, or even not that you like her shoes. Don’t overdo it ... a quick mention is all you need to-do in order to impress your date.


Mistake 4: You are Trying too Hard to Impress Her.

As the old saying goes ... just be yourself. Exaggerating and boasting about yourself will only make her think you just another moron, trying to pick he up. This doesn’t mean you shouldn’t talk about your achievement, just talk about them in a way that sounds real and not exaggerated. This will make her feel comfortable around you as women don’t like men that put on a false show, just to impress them.
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